What Is Love?

I'd have to admit..... I have never truly been in love. But I've seen many examples over the years. This guy's love speaks voulmes. Read the story below... then watch. I was brought to tears.

"The Proposal"

This guy Rob said God was unfolding a vision in his life over the span of about a year and then he put faith to feet and made it happen. Rob and Keisha dated for about 4 years. And he knew that she was the one...but he had to save up for all that God had prompted him to do for her. So in short what you are about to see happened on April 28th....he rented out 10 rooms at the Ritz Carlton in Buckhead and invited about 50-60 people to be there for this special night...Keisha had to go from room to room and in each room were people who were special to them....his boys...her girls...her Bible Study group....his parents...her parents..etc. and everybody in each room had questions that she had to answer to be able to move to the next room and before she left each room the people there would pray over her....so you have to watch each room to see how that goes...now about the roses....Keisha's aunt recently passed suddenly and she loved roses so he bought some and had them dipped in gold because of the stories in the Bible about Solomon and how everything was dipped in gold and the song that you hear playing in the background was the same song that was played at Keisha's aunt's funeral, she was like a second mom to Keisha.

When Rob was asked what he was thinking and how it felt...he said that he was kicking and screaming all the way. not because he did not love Keisha and want to marry her....but because of the time, money, and stress that was spent doing this. Rob, put his house up for rent and saved for her ring and this night and he did it out of obedience...

"I have spent the past year of my life piecing together a vision given to me by God. On April 28th, 2007 that vision was fulfilled. My labor of love for the woman I love." Robert Gray, Jr. Watch "The Proposal."

Just Beautiful.... tell me what you think.

They've Got Me.... I've Been Tagged!

Give me a break.... this is my first time... so if I screw it up, I'm saying sorry in advance!

The Rules: Each player starts with 7 random facts/habits about themselves. People who are tagged need to write their own blog post with their 7 things as well as these rules. You need to tag 7 others and list their names on your blog. Remember to leave a comment for them letting them know they have been tagged and to read your blog.



1. I'm a Journalist.
2. I'm not as snobby as I used to be.
3. I could eat plain French Fries for every meal.
4. I LLLLLOOOOVVVVVEEEE fashion!
5. If I were rich I'd still work.
6. I've always wanted to live in New York City.
7. I've never been drunk

I have tagged the following friends:(Be sure to check out their sites!)

Paula D- Ghetto Economics
JJ6412- mischiefmakersLisa C- Lisa C Writes
Staralicious- myalicious
Fasy- Nomore a girl, Not yet a Woman!! A Taste Of My Lifesylviahubbard1- How to Love A Black Woman

Why Bobby.... Whyyyyyyyy?

Bobby Cutts Jr. Has been arrested. Put behind bars. Locked up! He's charged with two counts of Murder. A body believed to be that of Jessie Davis was found yesterday. Jessie was 9 months pregnant. Police have not said what evidence led them to take Bobby Cutts into custody... but I'm sure they had something substantial. All week long I defended this man, I do not know him but something made me feel that he was not the guy. I guess he fooled me. He just didn't have the look of a man who would kill. When he spoke it didn't sound like he was trying to conjour up emotion.. Bobby Cutts sounded sincere.
Just like Jessie's mother I was hoping it was not him. Why Bobby Cutts... Why? If you didn't wan't another child....there were many steps you could have taken before being charged for murder. Like.... birth control pills, condoms, vasectomy, or better yet not cheating on your wife! I know that he'll never read this but this is for all the other men who one day might find themselves in a Bobby Cutts Jr. type of situation. They didn't get O.J. But Bobby they got you.... and you will PAY!

Hard to believe.... she's all grown up....

They say "time flies when you're having fun." How about changing it to "time just flies." Last Thursday evening I attended my baby sister's high school graduation... it's hard to believe she's done with that portion of her life. You see, I remember my mom being pregnant with her. I remember the day she was born like it was just this morning. I remember when she learned to dance, her first words, her first day of school, and when she lost her first tooth. It's like she was my very own kid.
I'm so proud of her! Chynna's so talented her possibilities are unlimited, she's always been our little star. All weekend I kept trying to look at her as a young adult. I thought about how grown up I thought I was when I graduated from high school and tried to treat her the way I thought she wanted to be treated... but I failed. Riding in the car I still reached over and pinched her cheeks (she frowned), I still grabbed her arm to use as a mic while singing (she snatched it back). These are the things I've done to her since she was small. I could only imagine how my parents feel...maybe proud, a sense of accomplishment, but i'm sure they're a little confused at to what to do with their big "baby" as well. For now I've concluded that not much will change... it will be a long struggle for us to treat her as the woman she's becoming while looking at her as our baby girl.